{"id":7885,"date":"2021-03-03T00:00:31","date_gmt":"2021-03-02T17:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iics.sch.id\/id\/?p=7885"},"modified":"2021-03-03T08:29:15","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T01:29:15","slug":"tolong-jangan-bandingkan-aku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iics.sch.id\/id\/tolong-jangan-bandingkan-aku\/","title":{"rendered":"Tolong Jangan Bandingkan Aku"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-7885\"  class=\"panel-layout\" ><div id=\"pg-7885-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-7885-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-7885-0-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"0\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cTuh kan\u2026 apa mama bilang.. coba tuh kamu contoh kakak kamu\u2026.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cMasa\u2019 kamu cuma dapet 80? Si A aja dapet 100..\u201d<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cMama seneng banget deh kalo kamu bisa ranking 1 kayak si B sepupu mu itu\u2026\u201d<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cKakak rajin sekali yaaa.. ga seperti adik yang ga mau belajar..\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pernahkah anda mendengarkan pernyataan di atas? Atau bahkan pernah mengatakannya pada anak anda? Sebagian orang tua berpikir perlu menggunakan kalimat-kalimat seperti di atas, khususnya untuk mendorong anak. Kalimat tersebut dipandang sebagai kalimat motivasi yang akan langsung mengeluarkan sebuah keajaiban, yaitu prestasi dan tingkah laku anak yang lebih baik.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Tapi tahukah Anda, sebenarnya kalimat-kalimat tersebut tidak tepat untuk diberikan kepada anak. Alih-alih memotivasi anak, kalimat tersebut justru akan meruntuhkan motivasi dan rasa percaya diri anak. Kalimat tersebut juga mengesankan orang tua tidak menyadari dan tidak menghargai keunikan tiap anak, ataupun tidak mengasihi anak secara utuh.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Apabila dilihat dari sudut pandang anak, kalimat tersebut akan menggambarkan kasih orang tua yang bersyarat, dan anak akan mengartikan \u201cmama\/papa sayang sama aku asal\u2026.\u201d. Akibatnya, saat kalimat tersebut digunakan, relasi orang tua dengan anak akan merenggang. Selain itu,\u00a0 anak juga dapat merasa \u201cjealous\u201d terhadap orang yang dibandingkan padanya. Bahkan tidak menutup kemungkinan adanya persaingan yang negatif di antara mereka.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Oleh karena itu, alangkah baiknya orang tua tidak memotivasi anak dengan cara membandingkan anak dengan pribadi lain. Motivasilah anak anda dengan cara yang lebih bijak, seperti:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bicaralah secara lugas dan tersurat akan apa yang ingin Anda sampaikan.<br \/>\n<\/span>Misalnya:<br \/>\nDaripada: \u201cPapa senang sekali deh kalo kamu bisa ranking 1 kayak si B sepupu mu itu\u2026\u201d<br \/>\nLebih baik: \u201cmelihat hasil belajarmu kali ini, papa rasa kamu harus lebih disiplin dan rajin dalam belajar.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Berikanlah solusi dan bukan tuntutan.<br \/>\n<\/span>Misalnya:<br \/>\nDaripada: \u201ckakak rajin sekali yaaa.. ga seperti adik yang ga mau belajar..\u201d<br \/>\nLebih baik: \u201cmama rasa, kamu perlu menetapkan prioritas, kapan waktu belajar dan kapan waktunya bermain. Mari kita buat kesepakatan jadwal belajar, dan mama minta kamu berusaha untuk menepatinya.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Jika ingin meminta anak menyelesaikan suatu tugas, jangan lupa memberitahu alasan kenapa kita memintanya.<br \/>\n<\/span>Misalnya:<br \/>\nDaripada: \u201cTuh kan\u2026 apa mama bilang.. coba tuh kamu contoh kakak kamu\u2026.\u201d<br \/>\nLebih baik: \u201cAyo bereskan meja belajarmu, kalo tempat belajar kamu rapi, kamu akan lebih nyaman belajar\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Saat memberikan kata-kata motivasi, usahakan tidak mengkaitkannya dengan orang lain.<br \/>\n<\/span>Misalnya:<br \/>\nDaripada: \u201cayo pertahankan prestasimu, jangan sampe kayak si A tuh.. dia nilainya jadi jelek loo..\u201d<br \/>\nLebih baik: \u201cKamu hebat sekali, pertahankan prestasimu ya\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Selain itu, alangkah baiknya orang tua tidak lupa menampilkan gestur tubuh yang menunjukkan rasa sayang, misalnya: sambil merangkul atau menepuk pundak anak. Bahasa tubuh kerapkali lebih berbicara daripada apa yang Anda katakan. Gestur tubuh yang tepat akan memperkuat pesan Anda kepada anak dan tentu saja anak akan semakin termotivasi dengan melihat gestur Anda. Mari kita memberikan dorongan kepada anak dengan cara-cara yang lebih bijak dan membangun. Memotivasi anak Yes! Membandingkan anak No!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Janganlah ada perkataan kotor keluar dari mulutmu, tetapi pakailah perkataan yang baik untuk membangun, di mana perlu,<br \/>\nsupaya mereka yang mendengarnya, beroleh kasih karunia.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Efesus 4:29<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Mutiara Mei Permata, S.Psi.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">IPEKA Counseling Center<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cTuh kan\u2026 apa mama bilang.. coba tuh kamu contoh kakak kamu\u2026.\u201d \u201cMasa\u2019 kamu cuma dapet 80? 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