{"id":7902,"date":"2021-03-31T10:43:39","date_gmt":"2021-03-31T03:43:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iics.sch.id\/id\/?p=7902"},"modified":"2021-03-31T10:43:39","modified_gmt":"2021-03-31T03:43:39","slug":"pemimpin-anakku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iics.sch.id\/id\/pemimpin-anakku\/","title":{"rendered":"Pemimpin Anakku"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-7902\"  class=\"panel-layout\" ><div id=\"pg-7902-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-7902-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-7902-0-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"0\" ><div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t>\n<div class=\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\">\n\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Seorang bapak ingin mengajak anaknya menghadiri sebuah pertunjukan musik. Ketika di pintu masuk, seorang petugas menghadang dan berkata, \u201dMaaf pak, hanya anak usia 13 tahun ke atas yang boleh masuk.\u201d Bapak tersebut menjawab<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, \u201dAnak saya sudah 13 tahun kok, badannya aja yang kecil.\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Bapak tersebut\u00a0 kemudian berusaha meyakinkan dengan berbagai cara bahwa anaknya memang sudah berusia di atas 13 tahun namun petugas pintu masuk tidak mempercayainya. Dengan kemarahan, bapak tersebut menarik tangan anaknya pergi menjauh sambal berkata pada anaknya, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cJangan khawatir kita cari cara lain. Pasti ada pintu masuk lain. Masa cuma boleh untuk anak usia 13 tahun!!\u201d.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Anaknya memang baru berusia 8 tahun.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Seorang anak berkata pada ibunya, \u201dMa, aku mana bisa ikut pergi jalan-jalan \u2018kan masih sekolah.\u201d Ibunya menjawab, \u201dTenang nanti mami yang ngomong ke guru kamu. Bilang aja ada urusan keluarga. Penting! Guru kamu juga gak akan tahu kok.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Kejadian ini mungkin pernah kita jumpai dalam hidup sehari-hari. Orang tua seringkali tanpa disadari mengajari anak untuk tidak mematuhi otoritas dengan cara memanipulasi, berbohong, atau bahkan bersikap terang-terangan menentang otoritas, seperti\u00a0 mengajari bagaimana membohongi guru, mengelabui polisi,dll. Namun orang tua akan marah ketika mendapati anaknya melakukan manipulasi, kebohongan atau menunjukkan sikap memberontak melawan orang tuanya. Padahal orang tua lupa bahwa ia juga mewakili figur otoritas bagi anak-anaknya sehingga anak-anaknya pun akan melakukan hal yang sama seperti diajarkan selama ini.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Selain sebagai figur otoritas dalam hidup anak, orang tua juga merupakan figur pemimpin bagi anak-anaknya. Anak-anak belajar kepemimpinan dari orang tua. Jika anak dilatih untuk tidak tunduk pada otoritas, maka anak-anak akan tumbuh pula menjadi pemimpin yang tidak tunduk pada otoritas. Ketundukan pada otoritas yang dimaksud tidak hanya menyangkut ketundukan pada suatu pribadi namun juga ketundukan pada aturan, prosedur dan hukum yang berlaku. Maka tidak mengherankan jika anak-anak dapat menjadi pemimpin yang korup, melakukan berbagai manipulasi,penipuan, dan tindakan melawan hukum di kemudian hari jika ia tidak dilatih sejak dini untuk tunduk pada otoritas.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Paulus memberikan nasehat kepada Timotius <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cAwasilah dirimu sendiri dan awasilah ajaranmu.\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> (I Timotius 4:16). Orang tua perlu menjaga dirinya agar ia dapat menjadi contoh pemimpin yang berintegritas di hadapan anak-anaknya sehingga pada saatnya nanti, anak-anaknya pun dapat menjadi pemimpin yang berintegritas.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Monica M.Psi., Psikolog<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Seorang bapak ingin mengajak anaknya menghadiri sebuah pertunjukan musik. 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